HAVING DAUGHTERS

 It is just a speechless and an unjustified pleasure to have daughters in life while a son loves debauchery and a daughter loves to do compromise. A son wants to settle his life with his wife and children while daughter has no desires to settle herself but to settle her family with her parents. She thinks about the ease of her parents while a man thinks to opt all luxury in his life. A girl might think a million times to take any decision for herself while a boy will not think even once while he would be choosing his happiness. A feminine would love to adjust with the things she has and a masculine would always love to buy the thing he likes. A daughter would give first preference to her parents while a boy would give priority to his girlfriend/wife. The tears of a girl will be always hidden but obstinate nature and wishes of a boy will be open to his parents. I think marrying a boy can be stressful to parents but marrying a girl can be easy for parents because when a girl leaves her home after marriage she basically decreases the burden of parents and home remains home till her death while after marrying a boy parents’ have fear of losing their home and the people who organise huge functions after giving birth to a boy baby they can be most often seen in old age homes. Although its very striking but true, marrying a girl can be a responsibility but it is not a burden but it is also true marrying a boy is not a burden but a responsibility for whole life. Sometimes it is good to be little bit egocentric but it would be a waste to be selfish forever.

Make your parents feel secure that you are there with them always if still they are insecure that means u got failed to pay your duty of god to be either a daughter or a son. World was not with you, name and status were also not with you when you born. Parents do not care about their status and needs when they do all for their children’ happiness but it’s really painful to listen that children forget their parents from their priority list. It is easy for children to escape from duties but it is very hard for parents to behave like their kids. Do not let yourself repent after being a parent for your deeds that you did in past because time is very short and it never gives second chance to everyone.

Love, respect, attend, care, give affection, make your parents feel secure and your preference too and the smile you could see on their faces because of you will be an unforgettable and precious gift for you. The best thing in life is to know that your parents are smiling because of you.

learn to DELETE

Life gives me plenty of opportunities when I have to listen a lot not only by elders but sometimes by juniors also not because every time I am mistaken but because they have no control on their tongue. Sometimes even I am right still i listen to them. I have tried a lot to change people. Even I observed people exhaust at me when they need to reveal anger. I see that everyone has his/her own life. Moreover everyone needs space but with my due attention. I always try to cooperate with the people either I need to adjust my own life but an undeniable truth I got is I was doing a silly mistake because there is no trick and no remedy to change the behavior of people. People get their behavior and attitudes by their family and what they do they represent their background. When parents do not slap their children at correct time then definitely they must be ready to bear the obstinate behavior of their children.

Finally I found a way, so I changed myself. As we have a delete option in phone as I give a command to delete all by my mind and as a result I am so happy and grateful to all the critiques.

VERDICT

Sometimes we face distress in our life without knowing the master planning of supreme power. We get depressed, we weep, we worry, we argue, we abuse and we blame, we stop talking, we stop sharing, we stop facing, we stop our mind to think when we are in stress and then we get fail in our life’s exam due to only one reason that god checks our patience and we lose our hope and belief.

 Sometimes to make us more and more strong god takes our test. He hurts us, injures us, makes us weep, force us to think but we never get pass in the exam.

Actually sometimes we are unable to take decisions. We have many ways to go. Then as a human being we listen to our heart instead of mind, so we get what we want but it never remains stable for long time. At that time we feel completely exhausted like everything is against us only due to heart that never makes us feel secure and safe.

 Even I got failed plethora of times when god was planning something big for me and I was trying to adjust in less. Where god was planning to gift me heaven and I became too stubborn to be in hell. At the end of every heart throbbing circumstance I got a result that god is the master planner and again I am no one to compete him. We are the greatest creature of god and his children too hence he can never make us weep for long, so be grateful and thankful to all he does.

CALIBER

Termination is a word that hurts when we do everything for people but while we doing we do not think about any politics hence we become a criminal of undone act. We work honestly, politely, lovingly with coordination and co-operation but hardly people care about it. Everyone tries to take illegitimate use of workers if workers are extremely loyal. Owners try to suck blood of employees because they pay but do not respect. They try to cut the salaries when labors are ill but they do not know anything about the overtime of their employees. They need their employees who can butter them more than their work.

In contemporary time a successful employee is not known by his or her work proficiency but he/ she is well known by their contacts with owners. So cheap to listen but it’s authentically true. Some employees try to go to office and reveal what they have in their mind and heart then so called owners take them for granted as they have purchased their personnel in few salary. As I use to listen to people’s story I felt very shoddy about the thinking of owners.

Firstly we should remember that an owner recruits employee because he has 99% attitude and only 1% skills whereas an employee might have 1% attitude and 99% skills. Owners recruit employee for their work but they do not purchase them. They always try to demotivate, degrade and demoralize their employee that not actually persuade employees but it gives them inferior feeling.

So, my dear employer- learn to behave and try to have some skills to face people. Telling employees to wait when you are free does not represent your ease to them but it shows your misconduct to them. If you prefer them they would not only love you but they are going to serve you for rest of their life.

My dear employees and regard able friends- an owner just pays you do not ever try be the puppet of your owners. When you do so you really get a success but it’s very short time success.Work but do not exploit yourself because you are capable and you have caliber and the market always welcomes your new idea and really care for your experience. Good luck and enjoy your liberty. Do not let the affluent rule on you…they would definitely repent in future.Because life never stops for anyone and life never gives you chance if you would not try and value yourself

This article had been written for those employers who ill treat their employees.

REWARD AND PUNISHMENT

Failure always slaps in crowd and success always claps in silence.

Your good deeds never remain unrewarded and your bad deeds never remain unpunished.

Never throw a black ball of revenge on someone, always throw a white ball of silence.

If relations are important, so forget your ego if words are crucial, so forget your relations.

The person we love is very loving and sometimes hurts us badly, we must not bury all his love for little bit ego.

Relationship needs to sacrifice on every step.

There is no need of commitment in true relationship.

Do Good and Forget

ü If people care for your work that is fabulous otherwise there is a great market price for your ability.

ü From today I will not try to please everyone.

ü Literally I realized that I cannot keep everyone happy.

ü If some people are unhappy with me, so I really do not care about them.

ü I consider people more than my limits but now I analyzed that people are completely egocentric.

ü Sometimes I feel regret after compromising for people because I really do not get any reward at the end.

ü I know a fact that god is here to mark every of my deed but still it hurts when people grow by buttering.

ü Thousands of people would be better than me but I do not like to chase them because they cannot be like me.

ü I have been giving my 100% but I will not try to grade myself ever.

BE POSITIVE OR QUIET

We all are the best creativity of god.

Either speak positive or be quiet.

God has millions of blessings for us, so do not stop them by reaching you.

No one can ever be escaped from their deeds, so do not be revengeful.

Insulting people for their misbehavior has no sense because they are shameless.

There is deep thinking behind a smiling face.

Till now I had been thinking what I do not want but now I am thinking what I actually want.

Do not look back to those who did not think about you before moving.

Nothing stays forever in life.

Some things in life can never be changed, so accepting and avoiding them can give us great joy.

"LET the PEOPLE YELP"

People cannot kill your ideas so they try to kill your character.

Face the people when they bark uselessly but do not be a dog by replying for their foolishness.

 I do not react on your vulgarity because its’ your garbage and I want to live clean.

If you want to get a destination, so first learn to avoid people's nonsense.

Leave the arguments inside the door do not linger it on.

People hope me to repent even after paying my best to them but later they realise what they lose.

There is no word like depression it is the only insecurity of yours' that hurts you.

Do not take the people’s talk seriously because they can judge you but cannot understand you.

Try to save your self-respect rather than your ego.

"The God" a Supreme Power

I want you to forgive me and become a best friend forever because there is no one who can avoid my mistakes and could see my love.

I trust god because he will always treat me impartially.

I discuss every pain of mine with my god because he listens to me without any tantrum.

Only my god never checked me because he beliefs me purely.

I love to get promise by god at least he would never break my heart.

God is the only one who loves us unconditionally.

God has power to forgive us for every sins,we just need to be sorry and should not repeat the mistakes.

If your past was worst and you realised your mistakes then you can make a best future.

Only god will never take any revenge, he will give us a new chance every day.

Everyone has complains with us but only the god is still quiet.

Materialism versus Values

If people are lenient towards you, so do not check their patience.

Don’t advice people; try to follow one of them by your own.

I am tolerating, not because I am fool but because I do not want argument.

I forget everything but I am unable to forget the harsh words.

I do not like to run behind materialism but I like to run behind my good deeds.

Nowadays relations are not strong by heart but by standard.

Yes I am the stupid one to trust everyone but people always teach me unforgettable lesson.

Nothing remains unrewarded in life later or sooner you will be rewarded.

Intuitions and Instincts

Your intuitions are as powerful as god.

Listen to your instinct and act on it.

Whatever you think, you invite.

Elders remain elders and their experience is as perfect as teacher.

We have a disease to trust everyone. Stop it!

When excusing becomes usual, it means there is something fishy!

Do not be a puppet of people because you cannot make everyone happy.

Leave the people when they do not want to understand your helplessness.

Your trust must not be half baked.

Tears and Emotions

There are several thoughts in my mind that make me feel alone.

Eyes speak the truth see them once deeply.

If god supported you in your lie it means he gave you one more chance to change.

Emotions are useless for those who do not care.

Weeping is a great way to get relief.

We should break all the relations where there are zero emotions.

Your sadness makes your heart weep, so make your heart strong.

Being alone is a great way to live your life on your conditions.

All in all i think god is always here for everyone.

Success and Patience

It hurts when people cheat you for their personal benefits but do not worry they will also pay.

Do not worry when cunning people win, it would be a short time success.

If you have caliber then trusting on god and doing your best efforts are enough.

Don’t say no one is watching there is always a supreme power to watch you closely.

 Once if you dared to do something good, don’t stop until you get best out of it.

Opportunities do not wait for anyone.

It is very painful to be a looser but you can become a winner after this.

If people do backbite about you it means you have something to make them jealous.

Success is always two steps away from your turning point.

Facets of Life

Once you left someone do not irritate them again and again.

Once you have decided to leave someone let them go.

After being sorry do not do silly mistakes again and again.

My silence is surprising me again and again.

Even my silence is hurting me again and again.

I have stopped myself to share anything with people because there is no one to listen to me with pain.

I love everyone from the same heart but I have not treated equally by them.

Sometimes it is necessary to listen to your mistakes calmly.

It doesn’t matter if people forgive you but it matters if you really did any effort not to lose them.

Your only ego is enough to destroy all your emotions.

Earning money versus love

Money and love both are essential needs of life. It is true that money cannot replace the love and love cannot replace money. If you are laborious and educated then earning money is easy. If you are emotionless, then earning love is impossible. By behaving rudely you can become a rich person but you cannot be loved purely. You need to give time to earn money and loving people at the same time by coordinating your time. Once you have earned billions and lost love, then all you earned in life is a waste. No doubt once you become richer but you left poorer because you have no personal life without relations. In the last I would say once people move on in their life will never be back even after your being sorry.

People around you

If people trust you blindly, so do not show them that they are actually blind.

If someone is too much sensitive, loyal and honest with you, so do not take illegitimate use of this.

We must not argue with everyone because they will not change but we will waste our time.

If you are rich, so any poor must not feel poorer before you.

Opportunities come to you; if you kick them, you miss them.

Never compare yourself with others because you actually do not know anything about them.

You can get success by trapping someone but remember it would be for short time.

People will keep you with them till they can make good use of yours’.

Those who are Intellectual remain in doubts and those who are fool remain overconfident.

Our thoughts, attitude and behavior make us either a bad or a good person.

love, life and death

We did not plan our birth; do not our death, so we should not worry about life.

Death is just a game of seconds but living life becomes very hard to think of dying.

Do not hurt people a lot, later you would regret and you would lose that person.

One major truth of life - no one dies for anyone.

No doubts, life is full of troubles but be thankful it keeps you busy to become strong.

It hurts when people do misbehave but they represent their self.

Keep in mind, that you cannot get rid with the result of each and every doing.

Giving someone a minute of the day for care is a precious gift instead of giving one thousand gifts.

A lover who wants lot of gift can be worldly but loving someone just by waiting for them without any hope is true love.

Try to change yourself because people would not change by any of your efforts.

Relations

Making many relations is not good but keeping few with love and mutual understanding is best.

Do not be happy on the disabilities of people; always keep in mind it might happen with you.

Do not take too much time to accept the truth; otherwise you will have to live with guilt for long time.

Giving someone a lot of tears will never keep you happy.

Sometimes those who have a worst past could make a best future.

Your hard time and struggle will give you a fabulous destination.

Learning from experience can give you an actual joy of life.

You should not reveal your weakness every time before people.

Keep close your criticizers to improve yourself.

You must have a decision making quality to live a good life.

Be daring to take decisions

Once you have decided to live god will forgive all your mistakes.

Doing suicide is not a good option, whatever you sow today; you will have to reap tomorrow.

Memories are the precious gift for everyone but still memories.

Be practical, sometimes an emotional decision can ruin your life.

Once you have taken decision never go back.

Indecision can be very costly for your life.

It is fabulous to keep everyone happy if you are ready to sacrifice your all.

 Do not call people for your help, later you would realize, you could do it by your own.

Gifts are not valuable if you do not value the relations.

Accept everything as a challenge.

Life experience thoughts

Each and every happening has a reason, so just chill.

We are not as much sensible to tackle the problems but God is here to direct us, so aside your ego.

     Everyone is superior but it is your own thinking that makes you inferior.

 Expectation is the biggest reason of tears.

Giving no response is better than arguing.

 People who discuss about others in front of you might gossip about you in front of others.

  Never share your privacy with everyone because it can be a topic to denounce you.

People who love you never show those who show never love.

Oh silly people don’t worship the god if you cannot love and respect the people.

If you have everything but you do not speak politely, so all you have is useless.