HAVING DAUGHTERS

 It is just a speechless and an unjustified pleasure to have daughters in life while a son loves debauchery and a daughter loves to do compromise. A son wants to settle his life with his wife and children while daughter has no desires to settle herself but to settle her family with her parents. She thinks about the ease of her parents while a man thinks to opt all luxury in his life. A girl might think a million times to take any decision for herself while a boy will not think even once while he would be choosing his happiness. A feminine would love to adjust with the things she has and a masculine would always love to buy the thing he likes. A daughter would give first preference to her parents while a boy would give priority to his girlfriend/wife. The tears of a girl will be always hidden but obstinate nature and wishes of a boy will be open to his parents. I think marrying a boy can be stressful to parents but marrying a girl can be easy for parents because when a girl leaves her home after marriage she basically decreases the burden of parents and home remains home till her death while after marrying a boy parents’ have fear of losing their home and the people who organise huge functions after giving birth to a boy baby they can be most often seen in old age homes. Although its very striking but true, marrying a girl can be a responsibility but it is not a burden but it is also true marrying a boy is not a burden but a responsibility for whole life. Sometimes it is good to be little bit egocentric but it would be a waste to be selfish forever.

Make your parents feel secure that you are there with them always if still they are insecure that means u got failed to pay your duty of god to be either a daughter or a son. World was not with you, name and status were also not with you when you born. Parents do not care about their status and needs when they do all for their children’ happiness but it’s really painful to listen that children forget their parents from their priority list. It is easy for children to escape from duties but it is very hard for parents to behave like their kids. Do not let yourself repent after being a parent for your deeds that you did in past because time is very short and it never gives second chance to everyone.

Love, respect, attend, care, give affection, make your parents feel secure and your preference too and the smile you could see on their faces because of you will be an unforgettable and precious gift for you. The best thing in life is to know that your parents are smiling because of you.